Lets Talk About Sex
Why is it so important to the average homo sapien to get laid? So much of our lives revolve around it. So many of us define who we are by how much of it we have, and who we can convince to do it with us.
What does it mean to you?
Admittedly, I have not had a great deal of experiance, in my short but illustrious career as an adult, but I must be missing something huge. I really cant understand the human obsession with sex. Especially now, when as a race we've turned sex into something rather inconsequential.
Dont get me wrong i dont think sex is a sacred act between two people or any such shit, but the thing that always made sex special for me was how I felt about the person i was with.
How does that translate into a random act of intercourse?
Animal passion has quite a lot going for it, and if you find it with someone, Hell go for it! But when sex can be cheapened so easily, shouldnt we be more careful?
Shouldnt sex be more than just a sensory sound and light show in your pants?
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I'd be interested in Madhu's comments about this.
well my comments would be I agree with you. Special ppl = Special Sex. But I havent had sex with non special ppl to know what THAT feels like. And have u become less liberal from before Misha? I remember the last time we guys met up you were Pro No Attachment which implied Multiple partners in One week. I am still at Multiple Partners per year but I m damn happy about this new special walla scene. When did u start thinking of special ppl?
ooooooooooo somebody changed sides!
Heehehheeh
I havent switched sides, and I hvaent become a prude.
No attachment is still a good thing, but my point has always been, even if you feel strongly about someone, you dont have to be attched to them. Im against relationships not emotions.
See????
Hmmm...Now from what I have read from ur previous posts you are going out with some guy ?...Do you have a relationship with him??...isnt there some form of attachment??..or are u both free as birds?
Ah well thats just it.
Usually when I hvae a boyfriend who insists on 'fidelity' (for the lack of a better word) if I dont want to be 'faithfull' I wont be. I have a terrible track record when it comes to 'cheating'. The inverted commas because i make it clear beforehand that monogamy is not part of the deal.
What one wants, ideally, is a situation when there is no pressure to be 'faithfull' and no desire to be 'unfaithfull'.
I dont know if I hvae that, or ever will, but its worth looking for.
oi K what did you do?
lol
nonsense young lady, you held that feelings had nothing to do with sex. emotion was unnecessary. and dont argue, i remember :P
Trueeeeeee
BUT
That was before I had had sex wasnt it?
What the hell did I know???
I like the last line. (I know I'm not answering this question very well.)
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Okay something went wrong...My comment didnt come up...So what..I shall REcomment.
Hmmmm...."What one wants, ideally, is a situation when there is no pressure to be 'faithfull' and no desire to be 'unfaithfull'."..thats a good ideal to live for...but....Reality supports ideals only sparsely spaced points...so what I wanna know is...if u had a guy....who you had no desire to be unfaithful to...but he went up and cheated...is there an issue?
Nope.
If I want no pressure, I will never pressure anyone.
And I rarely feel threatened. I wont say never, but on the whole Im pretty together
MY OPINION is as follows - Well I think special ppl need to be treated better than that(cheating-wise)...Or mebbe I am just confusing Love and Sex....but as of now...My dick and heart interfollow each other so both ways I am picky...not to mention that you are a different person from me...and you are entitled to your own scene...but I m damn curious..Now I know you have a heart...coz those depressing poems had to be about something..I think you are capable of love...but..tell me this...How often do you actually love your lovers?...How can you not get jealous when someone you love touches someone else?...Is free love really love?...sorry for bringing love into the equation...like i said I have a problem.
Who says I dont get jealous?
I do, but because Im feeling something so petty doesnt mean its the right thing to feel? Why should i restrict somebodies freedom because I cant control my feelings?
I actually belive that such freedom is the right thing, regardles of how I feel.
*poke*
I've been a bad bad girl....
*grin*
Okay. So now my point. Its different for men and women. (yeah, I saw 'Harry Met Sally' again today, so blame me all you want :P)
But 'tis true. I was talking to this friend of mine today and was said something abt how I couldnt get physical with a man I wasnt insanely attracted to physically (chuck the emotional attraction), and he said something to the effect of he'd kiss anyone. "Anyone?", I say. "Anyone", he answers. I hope (rather than think) that with sex he'd be a little more picky. The funny bit is that it holds true for a lot of people nowadays. But then I think it would still not be cheap, the sex. It depends on how one chooses to take it the day-after. Or whatever. Sigh. Im bad at this. :P
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